Companion AI apps in the Netherlands: everyday conversation compared
Compare companion AI apps for everyday conversation: free allowances, euro prices, memory tools, data retention and cancellation in the Netherlands.

In this article
18+ only. This page compares conversation with fictional adult characters. Some of the listed services also offer adult content.
Updated 2026-10-29. We checked plan and policy details on 2026-10-28 and the Candy.ai terms on 2026-10-29. Talkie and Replika show euro amounts in the Dutch App Store, while Nomi, Character.AI and Candy.ai publish dollar prices. Character.AI announced a court-supervised sale process on 2026-10-12.
Short answer for Dutch users
Companion AI apps differ less in how friendly they sound than in limits you can check before paying. Ask how many free messages you get, whether the app keeps notes about a character, what the subscription costs in euros and how you leave.
For a recurring, everyday conversation, Nomi leads with its documented memory tools and a free allowance of 50 messages a day (checked 2026-10-28). Replika keeps chat and avatar customisation free and lets you edit saved memories. Character.AI has unlimited free messages and the most developed published age check, but its future depends on a sale process. Talkie and Replika both have labelled monthly euro items in the Dutch App Store. Candy.ai, Kupid AI and GirlfriendGPT are adult-oriented character services with small introductory allowances and longer data retention.
None of these apps replaces friends, family or professional care. For a romance-focused list, see our AI girlfriend comparison. For setting personal boundaries, read the emotional safety guide.
Free access, price context and privacy at a glance
The apps appear in ranking order. Prices are in the currency each provider publishes. Euro amounts are App Store listings, not completed checkouts.
| App | Free access | Price context for NL | Continuity tools | Privacy or account point |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Nomi | 50 messages/day; 400-character input | US$15.99/month or US$99.99/year (web) | Mind Maps, backstories, shared notes | No end-to-end encryption |
| Replika | Chat and avatar customisation; no paid trial | Dutch App Store SKUs from €8.99; Annual ULTRA €74.99 | Saved memories you can read and remove | Full history removed only by deleting account |
| Character.AI | Unlimited messages; waiting room possible | c.ai+ US$9.99/month; lite from US$4.99 | 15 memory pins free, 30 on lite | Persona age check; sale process announced |
| Talkie | Free with ads and in-app purchases | Dutch App Store: €9.99 (1 Month), €29.99 (Pro) | FAQ says earlier messages can be forgotten | Terms: age 16 in NL; Apple rating 18+ |
| Candy.ai | 5 messages, 1 character, 1 image in total | $9.99 first month, then $13.99 (currency not stated) | 20 memory slots on Premium Plus | Chats may be used for AI training |
| Kupid AI | A few test messages before registration | Shows €3.44/week (Pro), €5.75/week (Ultra) | Pricing page lists last 100 messages | Data normally kept 6 years after closure |
| GirlfriendGPT | 10 to 20 messages in total (illustrative) | 5,000 to 20,000 messages/month on paid tiers | Custom character creation in browser | Data normally kept 6 years after closure |
- Candy.ai · 3.2/5 · $13.99/mo · NSFW yesFull review
- CHAI · 2.8/5 · Free tier · NSFW no
- Character.AI · 4.1/5 · US$9.99/mo · NSFW noFull review
- CrushOn.AI · 3.6/5 · US$5.99/mo · NSFW limited
- GirlfriendGPT · 3.1/5 · Free tier · NSFW yes
- HakkoAI · 3.6/5 · US$9.99/mo · NSFW no
- HeraHaven · 2.6/5 · Free tier · NSFW limited
- JanitorAI · 3.5/5* · 14,99 €/moFull review
- JOI AI · 3.4/5 · NSFW yes
- Kupid AI · 2.9/5 · NSFW limited
- Lovescape · 3.3/5 · NSFW yes
- Nastia · 4.0/5 · US$15.99/mo · NSFW yes
- Nomi.ai · 4.2/5 · US$15.99/mo · NSFW yesFull review
- OurDream · 3.9/5 · US$19.99/mo · NSFW yesFull review
- Perchance · 2.5/5 · Free tier · NSFW yesFull review
- Promptchan · 3.8/5 · $14.99/mo · NSFW yes
- Replika · 3.4/5 · NSFW limitedFull review
- Sakura · 3.7/5 · $19.00/mo · NSFW no
- Secrets AI · 3.9/5 · US$19.99/mo · NSFW yes
- SpicyChat · 3.6/5 · 5,95 €/mo · NSFW yesFull review
- Talkie · 3.6/5 · 9,99 €/mo · NSFW no
- Venice · 3.5/5 · US$0.00/mo · NSFW limited
The seven apps in ranking order
Each entry opens with the fact that matters most for an everyday conversation routine, then covers price, privacy and how to leave.
Nomi: the most complete memory toolkit with a daily free allowance
- Price / monthUS$15.99/mo
- Free tier50 msg/day
- NSFWyes
- Age checkself declaration
- PlatformsWeb, iOS
Nomi suits someone who wants to come back to the same character over weeks rather than browse a catalogue. Its documented continuity tools are persistent conversational memory, Mind Maps, backstories and shared notes. These give you fixed places to define a fictional background so you don't have to repeat it in chat. They are published features, not a measured recall score, so expect to correct details now and then.
The free plan has no end date and allows 50 messages per day (checked 2026-10-28). Free messages are capped at 400 characters each; paid accounts get 800. You don't need a card to start. Without a subscription, voice features become read-only.
Nomi's own marketing lists Standard at US$15.99 a month, US$39.99 per quarter or US$99.99 per year. Standard includes up to 10 companions, 10 group chats, voice calls and video. The official pages do not show the Dutch App Store listing when we checked, so the official pages do not confirm a euro total, iDEAL support or inclusion of 21% BTW.
Credits are optional and never expire, and you can only buy them with an active subscription. A selfie costs 1 credit, a standard-definition video 6 credits and an extra companion slot 100 credits.
Privacy is the main caveat. Nomi says chats are not end-to-end encrypted. The operator is Glimpse.ai, Inc. in Maryland, United States.
To delete the account, go to Profile, Account Settings, Delete account, confirm by email and type DELETE. Personal information is removed within about 28 days, except for support emails and data kept for legal reasons.
If you cancel under Profile, Subscription, Manage Subscription, you keep access until the current term ends. Uninstalling the app does not stop billing, and refunds for unused time are not routine. Age is self-declared through a date of birth. Trustpilot showed 2.3 from 42 reviews on 2026-10-28. The Nomi review covers plans and settings.
What we like
- 50 free messages every day, with no card needed
- Mind Maps, backstories and shared notes for continuity
- Up to 10 companions and 10 group chats on Standard
What could be better
- No end-to-end encryption
- Prices published in USD, with no confirmed euro checkout
- No routine refunds for unused time
Replika: a free avatar routine with an editable memory list
- NSFWlimited
- PlatformsWeb, iOS
Replika centres on one avatar that you customise and talk to as a routine. Chat and avatar customisation stay free, and there is no paid trial (checked 2026-10-28). Each paid tier adds more:
- Pro adds activities, relationship status, image generation, voice messages and calls.
- Ultra adds saving messages to memory and self-reflection features.
- Platinum lists video recognition and 10 realistic selfie videos, with no stated period.
Memory is unusually transparent. Under Home, your Replika's name and then Memory, you can read and remove individual saved facts. Conversations are another matter: you can only remove the whole chat history by deleting the account. In the app, that is Settings, Account Settings, Delete Replika. On the web, it is Delete My Account.
The Dutch App Store shows several euro SKUs:
- Monthly: €8.99 and €15.49
- Annual: €50.99, €55.99 and €64.99
- Annual ULTRA: €74.99
- Platinum: €78.99, with no duration
These are store listings, not a checkout, so the plan you are offered may differ. Sales are final once access starts, and Apple or Google handle refunds for store purchases. Deleting the app or the account does not cancel a subscription. PayPal subscribers cancel under Manage Automatic Payments.
Under the privacy policy dated 2026-05-27, profile data and messages are kept for up to 60 days after the contract ends. Some financial and device records are kept for at least 10 years. Italy's Garante fined the operator, Luka, €5 million on 2025-04-10 over legal basis, transparency and age verification, and noted an appeal.
Dutch is not one of the listed interface languages. Apart from the 18+ requirement, we could not establish any age-check procedure for subscribers. The Replika review explains the tiers in more detail.
What we like
- Chat and avatar customisation free, with no time limit stated
- Individual saved memories can be read and removed
- Voice messages and calls on Pro
What could be better
- Full chat history removed only by deleting the account
- Dutch not listed as an interface language
- Several euro SKUs without a clear plan mapping
Character.AI: unlimited free messages, strong age check, uncertain future
- Price / monthUS$9.99/mo
- NSFWno
- Age checkthird party
- PlatformsWeb, iOS, Android
Character.AI fits users who like switching between many characters rather than sticking with one. The official FAQ promises unlimited free messages, with a possible waiting room when traffic is high (checked 2026-10-28).
Plans and memory pins:
- Free accounts get 15 memory pins.
- c.ai lite raises that to 30 and starts at US$4.99 a month, depending on region.
- c.ai+ costs US$9.99 a month or US$94.99 a year. It adds priority access and a fuller memory suite with private Lorebooks.
The Dutch App Store lists four price points (9.99, 99.99, 2.99 and 5.99) with no duration labels, so don't read them as monthly or yearly prices.
The service is SFW. Pornographic content is not allowed, and paying does not remove the filter.
Its age assurance is the most developed in this list. Persona estimates age, asks for a selfie when needed and falls back to ID. Character.AI says it does not receive the identity images, and Persona deletes biometric data within seven days. A Dutch interface is listed, but we have not assessed chat quality in Dutch.
Continuity is the main risk. On 2026-10-12 the company announced a voluntary Chapter 11 sale process. The platform is still running and subscriptions are still billing, but the service may wind down if no viable bid comes in. The expected timetable is late November or early December 2026.
Italy's Garante fined the company €158,000 on 2026-07-03 over transparency, accountability and related issues. Trustpilot showed 1.2 from 740 reviews, while the Dutch App Store rating was 4.1. On the web, account deletion is under Profile Settings, Account, Manage Account and Data. Until the sale outcome is known, a monthly term limits your exposure better than an annual one.
What we like
- Unlimited free messages
- Persona age check with biometric deletion within seven days
- Dutch interface listed
What could be better
- Chapter 11 sale process with possible wind-down
- Trustpilot score of 1.2 from 740 reviews
- Dutch store price points lack duration labels
Talkie: the clearest euro price, with admitted memory gaps
- Price / month9,99 €/mo
- NSFWno
- PlatformsWeb, iOS, Android
Talkie is a widely installed character app. Google Play listed it at 4.5 with more than 50 million downloads (checked 2026-10-28). The iPhone version is called Talkie Lab and comes from the same seller, SUBSUP PTE. LTD. in Singapore. Features, history and purchases may not carry over between versions.
Installation is free, with ads and in-app purchases. Talkie publishes no numeric daily chat limit.
For Dutch readers, Talkie has the clearest local price. The Dutch App Store lists 1 Month at €9.99 and 1 Month Talkie+ Pro at €29.99. That is a storefront amount, not a completed checkout with a BTW breakdown. Gems are separate in-app purchases, and the listing does not give quantities. To cancel, use the Apple or Google subscription settings for the store you bought from.
By Talkie's own account, memory is the weak point. Its FAQ says earlier conversation can be forgotten because of technical limits, and it does not guarantee permanent recall. The service bans pornographic and violent content.
The age rules don't match: the terms set a minimum age of 16 for the Netherlands, while Apple rates the app 18+. Dutch is not one of the listed interface languages.
The privacy policy gives no fixed retention period. Interaction data is used for personalisation, and the policy does not explicitly rule out model training. You can delete the account in account settings.
Australia's eSafety Commissioner published a consumer guide on Talkie on 2025-09-19 describing age and content risks. That guide is not an enforcement finding.
What we like
- Labelled monthly euro price in the Dutch App Store
- SFW content rules
- Free access with ads
What could be better
- FAQ acknowledges that earlier conversation can be forgotten
- Terms minimum age differs from the Apple 18+ rating
- iOS and Android versions may differ
Candy.ai: memory slots and EU withdrawal rights, small free start
- Price / month$13.99/mo
- NSFWyes
- Age checkself declaration
- PlatformsWeb
Candy.ai is an adult character service run by EverAI Limited in Malta, and card statements show EverAI. For companionship it has custom characters, chat clones and memory slots, and adult content with fictional adult characters is part of the offer. Images come in realistic or anime styles. The service runs in the browser, with an Add to Home Screen option.
The free allowance is small, and no renewal schedule is given: 5 chat messages in total across characters, 1 created character and 1 generated image (checked 2026-10-28).
Premium prices carry a dollar symbol, and the official pages do not confirm the currency:
- First month: $9.99, then $13.99 per month
- Quarterly: $26.97
- Yearly: $47.88
The euro amount and BTW treatment only appear at checkout. Don't add 21% to a figure that may already be gross.
Paid accounts get 100 tokens a month. Premium Plus gives 330 tokens, 20 memory slots and 5 chat clones. Token pack prices are not public, so your monthly cost is the subscription plus whatever extra tokens you buy. Card, crypto, Apple Pay and Google Pay are listed; iDEAL is not.
EU rules help here. Section 10.4.3 of the terms gives a 14-day withdrawal right on the first purchase, counted from the confirmation email. The value of services already used is deducted, and renewals are not covered.
Cancel under My Profile, Settings, Unsubscribe. Deleting the account is a separate step under Settings, Danger Zone.
The privacy policy dated 2026-10-19 allows chats to be used for AI training, and de-identified interactions may be reviewed by people. Account data is generally kept up to 3 years after last activity, and financial records for 10 years. Age is self-declared. The Trustpilot profile showed a removal notice on 2026-10-28.
What we like
- 14-day EU withdrawal right on the first purchase
- 20 memory slots and 5 chat clones on Premium Plus
- Separate, documented cancellation and deletion routes
What could be better
- Only 5 free messages in total
- Introductory monthly price renews higher
- Policy allows chats to be used for AI training
Kupid AI: weekly media quotas, billing terms to confirm
- NSFWlimited
- PlatformsWeb
Kupid AI is run by Servalot Ltd in Cyprus and sells companionship as weekly quotas (checked 2026-10-28):
- Pro: 25 photos, 8 videos, 12 voice minutes and 4 custom characters per week
- Ultra: 75 photos, 25 videos, 35 voice minutes and 8 custom characters per week
Voice comes as messages, and the Talk to Her label does not confirm live calls. The pricing comparison lists a context of the last 100 messages. That is a stated limit, not tested long-term recall.
Read the euro figures carefully. Pro appears as €3.44 per week next to a crossed-out €12.99, and Ultra as €5.75 per week next to €24.99. We could not read the billed upfront amount or the term. The pricing page also says one payment with nothing renewing, which conflicts with the cancellation wording in the terms. Confirm the total, the term, renewal and BTW inclusion at checkout.
The privacy policy allows a few test messages before registration. Third-party claims of 15 free messages contradict each other and are not a confirmed quota.
Coins that come with a subscription, trial or promotion expire 6 months after they are granted. Packs you buy directly do not expire, and the coins that expire first are spent first.
To cancel a subscription, you email support through the link in the terms. Digital sales are described as final after use.
Although the marketing mentions anonymous use, the privacy policy normally keeps personal information for 6 years after account closure. You request erasure through the controller contact. The terms require users to be 18 or the local age of majority, but we could not establish an ID check for ordinary subscribers. Trustpilot showed 3.1 from 17 reviews.
What we like
- Clear weekly quotas for photos, videos and voice minutes
- Directly purchased coin packs do not expire
- Up to 8 custom characters on Ultra
What could be better
- Billed total and renewal terms need checking at checkout
- Cancellation requires emailing support
- Personal data normally kept 6 years after closure
GirlfriendGPT: browser character catalogue with long data retention
- Price / monthFree tier
- NSFWyes
- Age checkself declaration
- PlatformsWeb
Check the domain first. On this page, GirlfriendGPT means gptgirlfriend.online, run by NextDay AI Incorporated in Montreal, with subsidiaries in the EU and the US. Services with similar names in search results may be different products.
It is a browser-based catalogue with custom character creation. The official guide installs it as a web app or an Android APK, and we found no native store edition.
The free start is small and counted in total, not per day. The terms give an example of 10 to 20 messages across 2 or 3 characters, and you can earn extra credits through tasks (checked 2026-10-28). Paid tiers allocate 5,000 to 20,000 messages a month, which do not roll over.
The official pages do not confirm a euro plan price, iDEAL support or BTW inclusion. The policy footer shows Visa, Mastercard and Discover, and CCBill also processes payments. Voice messages and video are listed, but the site does not say which plans include them.
You cancel in your account under Manage subscription, then confirm by email. CCBill subscribers use Billing, Cancel Subscription. Refunds are generally limited to payment errors or technical problems; other requests are reviewed case by case within 14 days.
Cancelling does not erase your data. You request erasure separately through Support. The privacy policy dated 2026-04-13 grants GDPR rights to EU users but normally keeps personal data for 6 years after account closure. Flagged content may be reviewed by hand, so confidentiality here does not mean end-to-end encryption.
Age is a self-declared 18+ gate. Trustpilot showed 2.7, from only 4 reviews.
What we like
- Custom character creation in the browser or as a web app
- Large monthly message allocations on paid tiers
- GDPR rights stated for EU users
What could be better
- Only 10 to 20 free messages in total
- Personal data normally kept 6 years after closure
- Euro plan price not stated
Which app fits which routine
- A short daily check-in: an allowance that renews matters more than a large catalogue. Nomi's 50 messages a day and Character.AI's unlimited free messages renew. Candy.ai's 5 messages and GirlfriendGPT's 10 to 20 are one-off totals.
- One long-running character: look for memory you can edit. Nomi has Mind Maps and shared notes, Replika lets you remove individual saved facts and Character.AI gives 15 free pins. Talkie says earlier conversation can be forgotten.
- A fixed euro budget: Talkie (€9.99) and Replika list euro amounts in the Dutch App Store. Nomi, Character.AI and Candy.ai publish dollar prices. Kupid shows weekly euro figures without the billed total. Nomi credits, Candy.ai tokens and Kupid coins come on top of the subscription.
- Privacy first: compare how long data stays after you leave. Nomi removes personal data within about 28 days, and Replika keeps messages up to 60 days after the contract. Candy.ai keeps account data up to 3 years after last activity, and Kupid and GirlfriendGPT normally keep personal data 6 years after closure.
- A strictly SFW space: Character.AI and Talkie ban pornographic content. Nomi allows adult text but limits images.
- Dutch interface: Character.AI is the only one of these apps that lists Dutch. Replika and Talkie do not.
How ratings work: eight weighted criteria
Ratings use the eight criteria below, with fixed weights across the site. Commercial arrangements do not affect the order: three of the top four apps are not partners.
Every figure comes from official pricing pages, help centres, terms, privacy policies and app store listings, checked on 2026-10-28 (2026-10-29 for Candy.ai). We did not run our own test sessions, so the published limits describe features and say nothing about dialogue quality. Where the official pages do not confirm a euro checkout, iDEAL or BTW inclusion, we say so rather than converting dollar prices.
| Criterion | Weight | What counts |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing transparency | 15% | Published currency, statement name and extra-action costs |
| Free tier | 15% | Recurring allowances, one-time samples and card requirements |
| Cancellation and refunds | 10% | Documented steps, access after cancellation and refund conditions |
| Content rules | 10% | Published restrictions and adult-access controls |
| Privacy | 15% | Policy date, training, retention, deletion and encryption |
| Age check | 10% | The documented verification method |
| Platforms and language | 10% | Web and store access plus interface language |
| Reputation | 15% | Dated public ratings, incidents and regulatory action |
Privacy, age checks and emotional safety
No app in this comparison confirms end-to-end encryption for companion chats, and Nomi says outright that it does not use it. Assume the provider, its moderators and its processors can read every conversation. Keep real names, addresses, health details and work matters out of character backstories.
Training rules differ:
- Candy.ai's policy permits use of chats for AI training.
- Replika contractually bars third-party AI processors from training their own models on conversations.
- Talkie uses interaction data for personalisation and does not confirm that it is excluded from training.
Age checks also differ:
- Character.AI uses Persona age estimation with selfie and ID fallback.
- Nomi, Candy.ai and GirlfriendGPT rely on self-declaration.
- Replika and Kupid AI require users to be 18+ but do not describe a subscriber check.
- Talkie's terms allow users from 16 in the Netherlands, while Apple rates the app 18+.
A companion app generates text. It cannot tell how you are doing or step in during a crisis. If conversations start taking the place of sleep, contact with people or professional help, set time limits or pause the account. Our guide to emotional safety with AI companions covers warning signs and practical boundaries.
Verdict
For an everyday companion routine, Nomi has the strongest documented mix: 50 free messages a day, explicit memory tools and a deletion window of about 28 days. The downsides are no end-to-end encryption and USD pricing.
Replika is the better choice if you want a free avatar chat and a memory list you can edit. Character.AI suits users who want unlimited free messages and a real age check and can live with the risk of its sale process. Talkie has the clearest euro price but admits gaps in memory.
Candy.ai, Kupid AI and GirlfriendGPT are adult services with small free starts and longer data retention. Before subscribing to any of them, confirm the checkout total, the renewal terms and the payment method.
Frequently asked questions
What is the best AI companion app?
Nomi is our first editorial pick, and its displayed score uses the site-wide eight-criterion method. It has 50 free messages a day, Mind Maps and shared notes, and removes personal data within about 28 days after deletion. It has no end-to-end encryption and publishes prices in USD. Replika and Character.AI come next.
Which AI companion app is free?
Several have usable free access. Character.AI promises unlimited messages, with a possible waiting room. Nomi allows 50 messages per day. Replika keeps chat and avatar customisation free with no published cap, and Talkie is free with ads. Candy.ai gives 5 messages in total, not per day.
Can I pay with iDEAL?
None of the pages we checked confirms iDEAL. Candy.ai lists card, crypto, Apple Pay and Google Pay. GirlfriendGPT shows Visa, Mastercard and Discover plus CCBill. Nomi's web terms describe card billing. App Store purchases use the payment method on your Apple account.
Do the prices include 21% BTW?
The euro amounts for Talkie and Replika are App Store listings without a BTW breakdown. Dollar prices from Nomi, Character.AI and Candy.ai do not show a Dutch total. Check the final amount at checkout instead of adding 21% to a figure that may already be gross.
Is there an AI companion app in Dutch?
Character.AI lists a Dutch interface, though we have not assessed the quality of its Dutch replies. Replika and Talkie do not list Dutch among their interface languages. Nomi lists English.
Are these apps available on Android and iOS?
Character.AI and Talkie have apps in both stores; on iPhone, Talkie is called Talkie Lab. Nomi lists iOS, Android, web and a web app. Replika is on iOS, and its terms refer to Google Play. Candy.ai runs as a web app, and GirlfriendGPT as a web app or official Android APK.
What happens to my chats when I delete my account?
Nomi removes personal information within about 28 days, and Replika keeps messages up to 60 days after the contract. Candy.ai keeps account data up to 3 years after last activity, and Kupid AI and GirlfriendGPT normally keep personal data 6 years. Deleting an app does not cancel a subscription.
Can an AI companion help against loneliness?
Some features can support a routine, such as daily messages, saved memories and voice calls on paid plans. The apps generate conversation; they do not provide care. Use them alongside contact with people, and seek professional help if you feel low for a long time.