Best AI girlfriend apps for the Netherlands: limits, prices and privacy

Best for users who want a long-running fictional relationship and a free allowance that refills. Nomi.ai is operated by Glimpse.ai, Inc., with a contact address in Baltimore, Maryland. Its memory is split across several published tools: persistent conversational memory, Mind Maps, backstories and shared notes. These are features the operator documents (checked 2026-10-28), not a measured recall score, but they give you separate places to keep a character's history consistent.

The free plan has no end date and allows 50 messages per day. A free message can be up to 400 characters long, and 800 on a paid plan. That caps what you type; it says nothing about memory. Voice calls are part of the subscription, and voice features become read-only after a downgrade. Standard includes up to 10 companions and up to 10 group chats.

Nomi's official comparison article lists Standard at US$15.99 per month, US$39.99 for three months and US$99.99 per year. The official pages do not confirm a euro price. The Dutch App Store link did not load when we checked, which tells you nothing about the web version. The web terms describe card billing; iDEAL and a BTW-inclusive total were not confirmed. Credits are an optional extra: a selfie or art request costs 1 credit, a standard-definition video 6 and an extra Nomi slot 100. You can only buy credits with an active subscription, and they do not expire.

To cancel, go to Profile, Subscription, Manage Subscription, Cancel Subscription and confirm the prompts. Access continues until the renewal date, and uninstalling the app does not stop billing. Refunds for unused time are excluded as a rule, with discretionary exceptions. Nomi says plainly that chats are not end-to-end encrypted. To delete the account, go to Profile, Account Settings, Delete account, verify by email and type DELETE. Personal information is removed within about 28 days, with exceptions such as support messages. Age is checked by date-of-birth entry. Trustpilot showed 2.3 from 42 reviews on 2026-10-28. The Nomi review goes through the account settings in more depth.

Best for users who want daily free chat and a predictable monthly budget for images or calls. Secrets AI is operated by Secret Labs Inc. in Dover, Delaware. The free tier allows 20 sent messages per day, resetting 24 hours after your first message, plus 100 messages in total with custom characters (rechecked 2026-10-29). Memory is automatic and kept per companion: conversation context plus saved important details. No context size is published.

At the regular price, Premium costs US$19.99 per month or US$109.99 per year, and Ultimate costs US$39.99 per month or US$319.99 per year. Both include unlimited messaging. A seasonal sale may discount only the first term, so plan around the renewal price. Premium includes 8,000 Moments per month and Ultimate 15,000. Media is metered: a premium image costs 50 Moments, one minute of an audio call 50, and a basic 8-second video without audio 600. By simple arithmetic, 8,000 Moments covers about 160 premium images or 160 call minutes, not both. Monthly grants reset. Purchased top-ups do not expire but need a paid membership. The tier guide contradicts itself on calls in the free plan, so do not count on free voice.

You can pay with Visa, Mastercard, Discover or crypto (more than 300 currencies, US$20 minimum). iDEAL was not confirmed. Charges appear as S LABS INC. To cancel, go to Settings, Manage Subscription, Cancel Subscription, give a reason and confirm. The account then returns to free, and chats, memories and characters stay. The refund policy excludes ordinary partial refunds but sets out a 14-day EU/UK withdrawal right, treated proportionally if you used the service. Crypto payments are generally nonrefundable.

The age gate asks for 18+ or the local age of majority, and the terms allow additional verification. You can delete the account under Account settings, Delete Account. The privacy policy is dated 2026-04-10 and gives [email protected] as the contact. It does not mention end-to-end encryption. Trustpilot showed 4.5 from 287 reviews on 2026-10-28.

Best for users who want one continuing avatar and would rather pay through the Dutch App Store. Replika is run by Luka, Inc. in San Francisco. We have no affiliate arrangement with it, and it is placed by the same criteria as the others. Chat and avatar customization stay free, and there is no paid trial. The help pages give no number for free chat.

It is the only product in this list with euro amounts on the Dutch App Store (checked 2026-10-28): monthly entries of €8.99 and €15.49, annual entries of €50.99, €55.99 and €64.99, Annual ULTRA at €74.99 and Replika Platinum at €78.99 with no duration shown. These are store listings, not a checkout or a single Pro price, so the offer in your own account decides what you pay. Pro adds relationship status, activities, image generation, voice messages and calls. Ultra adds improved conversations and saving messages to memory. Platinum adds video recognition, Training Mode 100 times per week and Read Mind 50 times per week.

Memory is where Replika is most useful in practice. Under Home, your Replika's name, Memory, you can read or remove individual saved facts. Dutch is not one of the iOS interface languages, which are English, French, German, Portuguese and Spanish. To cancel, open Settings, Subscription, Cancel subscription and confirm through the platform you were billed on. PayPal subscriptions are stopped under Manage Automatic Payments. Deleting the app or the account does not stop billing. Sales are final once access starts, and Apple and Google refunds go through those stores.

Profile data and messages are kept for up to 60 days after the contract ends, some financial and device records for at least 10 years, and analytics are removed or de-identified after 1 year. You cannot delete conversation history by itself; only deleting the account removes it. On 2025-04-10 Italy's data protection authority fined Luka €5 million over past failures on legal basis, transparency and age verification. The authority noted an appeal, and this is not a Dutch ban. The app requires users to be 18+, but how current subscribers are checked is not described publicly.

Best for users who want a small preview before paying and care about an EU-based operator. Candy.ai is run by EverAI Limited, registration C107181, in Santa Venera, Malta. The free allowance is 5 chat messages in total across characters, 1 created character and 1 generated image, and no daily renewal is stated. Treat it as a look at the interface rather than a free plan for regular use. Images and video come in realistic and anime styles, with selfies in chat. The service runs in the browser and can be added to the home screen.

Prices checked 2026-10-28: Premium is $9.99 for the first month and renews at $13.99. The quarterly plan charges $26.97 upfront (shown as $8.99 per month), and the yearly plan $47.88 upfront (shown as $3.99 per month). The page shows a dollar sign without a confirmed currency code, and we did not verify a euro checkout, so do not add 21% BTW to these figures yourself. The checkout total is what counts. Premium includes 100 tokens per month. Premium Plus includes 330 tokens, 20 memory slots, 5 chat clones and a 10% top-up bonus on quarterly or yearly plans. Token costs per action are not published, so you cannot turn 100 tokens into a number of images. Payment options are major credit cards, crypto, Apple Pay and Google Pay; iDEAL is not listed. Charges appear as EverAI.

Cancel under My Profile, Settings, Unsubscribe. Access lasts until the period ends. Section 10.4.3 of the terms gives 14 days to withdraw from an initial purchase, counted from the confirmation email, minus the prorated value of services used. Renewals are not covered. Notice can go to [email protected]. Deleting the account is a separate route: My Profile, Settings, Danger Zone, Delete Account.

The privacy policy, dated 2026-10-19, covers AI training and possible human review of de-identified interactions. Account data is generally kept up to 3 years after last activity and financial records for 10 years. The DPO is reachable at [email protected]. The age gate is an 18+ affirmation, with possible local checks. On 2026-10-28 the Trustpilot profile showed a removal notice, so there is no current score. See the Candy.ai review for the full cost breakdown.

Best for adults who can keep a fixed subscription and metered media spending separate. OurDream is operated by Dream Studio USA, Inc. in Dover, Delaware. It runs in the browser as a web app and has no native app. Standard Monthly costs US$19.99 and adds 1,000 Dreamcoins at purchase and at each renewal. Standard Annual charges US$119.88 upfront; the US$9.99 monthly figure is an equivalent, not a monthly charge. The annual plan starts with 2,000 coins, including a one-time 1,000 bonus, then adds 1,000 per month (checked 2026-10-28).

The cost guide, dated 2026-03-02, sets standard paid text at 0 coins. A Genius or Lively Genius reply costs 1, an in-chat image 5, a minute of voice call 50, a 5-second standard video 100, and creating a character with two images 10. In practice, 1,000 monthly coins buys about 200 in-chat images or 20 call minutes. Model prices can change. Free accounts pay 1 coin per message. There is no fixed signup or daily grant, only occasional referral or Discord rewards.

Official help says PayPal is not supported, and iDEAL or a euro total was not confirmed. To cancel, open your profile, choose Cancel subscription and confirm. Access and remaining coins last until the paid term ends, and resubscribing later does not restore unused coins. Cancelling does not get you a refund; support reviews requests at its discretion. Deleting the account is different from cancelling. It cancels the subscription automatically, forfeits remaining coins without a refund and takes 24 to 48 hours. The route is your profile, then the danger zone at the bottom, then delete my account.

The privacy policy, dated 2026-08-26, allows collected information, including user content, to be used to train AI models. It gives no universal retention period, and popular characters you shared may remain after deletion. The contact is [email protected]. Age is confirmed by an 18+ affirmation, and the policy allows extra checks, including document or biometric services, where needed. The Trustpilot profile showed a removal notice on 2026-10-28.

Best for users who like fixed weekly quotas and will read the checkout carefully. Kupid AI is operated by Servalot Ltd in Cyprus. Its pricing page shows euro figures (checked 2026-10-28): Pro at €3.44 per week next to a crossed-out €12.99, and Ultra at €5.75 per week next to a crossed-out €24.99. The official pages do not confirm the billed total, the period actually selected or whether BTW is included, so the weekly number is not what you will be charged.

The quotas are specific. Pro includes 25 photos, 8 videos, 12 voice minutes and 4 custom characters per week. Ultra includes 75 photos, 25 videos, 35 voice minutes and 8 custom characters per week. The voice minutes are for voice messages; live calls are not established. On memory, the pricing comparison lists the last 100 messages, which is a claimed context limit, not tested long-term recall. You can send a few test messages before registering, but the exact number is not confirmed.

Coins follow two expiry rules. Coins from a subscription, trial, promotion or gift expire 6 months after they are granted, while packs you buy directly do not expire. The coins that expire soonest are used first. Coins cannot be transferred or exchanged for cash.

Renewal is the main red flag. The pricing page talks about a single payment with nothing renewing, while the subscription terms describe cancellation, so the offer you choose at checkout decides which applies. To cancel, you email support through the link in the terms. Digital sales are described as final once used, and no EU withdrawal procedure is described. Personal information is normally kept 6 years after the account closes. Erasure is requested through the controller contact, and the policy's displayed revision date is ambiguous. The terms require users to be 18+, but no identity check for subscribers is described. Trustpilot showed 3.1 from 17 reviews on 2026-10-28.

Best for adults who want a browser-based character catalogue with custom creation and can manage with a small starting allowance. First make sure you have the right service. GirlfriendGPT runs on gptgirlfriend.online and is operated by NextDay AI Incorporated in Montreal, Canada, with an EU subsidiary, NextDay AI EU Ltd, in Limassol, Cyprus. Services with similar names are separate products with their own terms.

The terms give an example free introduction of 10 to 20 messages in total across 2 to 3 characters. This is not a daily grant, though you can earn more credits through tasks (checked 2026-10-28). Paid plans come with 5,000 to 20,000 messages per month, and unused messages do not roll over. A euro price was not confirmed, so read the total on the plan page before paying. The payment icons show Visa, Mastercard and Discover, and the terms also mention CCBill. Local methods such as iDEAL were not confirmed. The official download guide installs the service as a web app or an Android package; there is no native store listing.

To cancel, go to your account, Manage subscription, Cancel, and you will get a confirmation email. For CCBill payments the path is Billing, Cancel Subscription. Access continues until the paid period ends. Refunds are generally limited to payment errors and technical problems. CCBill handles its own refunds, and other requests are reviewed case by case within 14 days.

Privacy is the weak point. The policy, dated 2026-04-13, normally keeps personal data for 6 years after the account closes. EU users have GDPR rights, but erasure is requested through Support, and no deletion option inside the product is documented. Moderation combines an automated filter with manual review of flagged content, so confidentiality here does not mean end-to-end encryption. Age is a self-declaration of 18+ or the local minimum. Trustpilot showed 2.7 from only 4 reviews on 2026-10-28, too few to say much.